Does your child ask you a question in their maths homework and you feel completely clueless?

You're not the only one. So many parents tell me they freeze the moment their child says, "Mum, can you help me with this?"

Maths in 2026 looks and feels different. The methods have changed. The language has changed. And the pressure on children (and parents) is higher than ever. But here's the part that matters: You're not bad at maths, you just weren't taught this way. And that is something we can fix. 

 

Why modern methods feel different... 

Over the last decade, schools and professionals have been adapting maths teaching with the goal that children deeply understand maths not just copying a method. Bar models, negative counters, algebra tiles, stem sentences... it can all feel like a different world. When you understand the methods too, everything feels lighter. 

 

What your child actually needs for you...

When your child is stuck, overwhelmed or frustrated, they're not looking for a perfect explanation. They're looking for reassurance. A calm voice. A bit of patience. Someone who says:

"Let's look at this together."

"It's okay to get stuck, everyone does."

This is what reduces maths anxiety. This is what helps them keep trying. 

 

Creating a positive maths culture at home...

You don't need to turn your house into a classroom. Small shifts make a huge difference. I actively encourage adults to avoid saying "I was never good at maths" as children absorb this. You should always celebrate effort, not speed or how many were correct. Normalise mistakes and keep homework low pressure, this should be their time to make errors, ask questions and be curious. Your home can be the place where maths feels safe, not stressful. 

 

Why I'm writing about this...

I started my blog because I care deeply about maths anxiety and not just in children, in adults too, even teachers. When adults feel unsure, it can unintentionally pass down to the next generation. Minimalist Maths exists to break that cycle. To make maths feel clearer and calmer. 

If you haven't read my post on understanding maths anxiety, it's here: Understanding Maths Anxiety